Summer is coming and we're all thinking about making a splash.
For parents and guardians of gender diverse and transgender children -- this one's for you.
Supporting our kiddos isn't just about selecting the right pattern and style at Walmart. There's more to consider in ensuring body positivity rules -- like ensuring the right coverage also equals comfort and support.
I first wrote this article in 2019 and it's now 2021 and summer couldn't be MORE in demand after another winter of COVID. Since then, a flashy new Canadian company has come on the market and we are ALL about showing them some love and support.
Rubies mission? They want every active trans girl to be as confident and comfortable in her clothes as her friends. What is not to love about that!
All new this season is the 'Sky-Shaping' one-piece swimsuit.
Available to order online in CAD or USD.
Finding the right swim wear fit can often present many of us with our own unique set of challenges.
I believe in tackling the tough stuff together. Here's some tips and links shared from our experience and other loving parents helping to navigate these waters for their children:
Skirted swim suits offer a frilly detail to ensure great coverage and comfort. But they're not always easy to find for older children.
As parents and guardians, we want our children to feel confident and body-positive. Younger children can rock boys swimwear and there are a variety of board shorts and surf- styles on the market.
1. Swim trunks with packer pouch: It's all about positive affirmation in our house and supporting our kids in feeling great about themselves and who they are. When your child is experiencing heightened gender dypshoria (the distress people can experience when their body doesn’t align with their gender identity), using a packer or STP may help to increase confidence, decrease dysphoria and help a child feel more aligned with their identity.
And great news! These products are available in small sizes for children, tweens and teens. There are some online shops (message us and we'll happily refer you) selling packers and STPs and they will adapt boys swim trunks so they will work with your purchased packer. I'm no seamstress, but the idea is sewing in a pocket without the thread showing on the outside of the swimwear. If you can do this yourself, more power to you!
Surf or board shorts tend to work best for this kind of adaptation.
Hope you all get out there and make a splash this summer as your best selves; confident and awesome.